Hello Leaders,
I'm Tia A. Williams, and this newsletter is for leaders navigating the tension between strategy, leadership, and team alignment.
Each edition delivers practical systems, actionable insights, and clarity tools to help you scale with trust, cohesion, and purpose that drives sustainable mission impact.
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🚀 Featured Insight
The Hidden Cost of Founder Stoicism
Founders are often expected to be stoic. Know everything. Never waver. Show no vulnerability.
I've lived that life. People look up to you, but they don't feel connected to you. They admire the persona. It becomes an ideal. And you feel more disconnected, more vulnerable, and more alone. Right when you need others the most.
But if that's how you show up, you're silently teaching your team the same message: Don't be human. Don't make mistakes. Don't speak up until it's perfect.
The Real-World Impact
I've worked with teams where the founder had become so stoic that the team saw them as inauthentic and unapproachable. The founder thought they were providing stability and confidence. Instead, team members never shared real context about what was happening on the ground. They told the founder what they thought he wanted to hear rather than what he needed to know.
The result? Critical problems stayed hidden. Market feedback got filtered. The founder was making decisions based on incomplete information while believing they had full visibility into their business.
That kind of modeling creates cultures where:
Problems stay hidden until they become disasters
Innovation stalls because trying something new feels too risky
People burn out trying to pretend they've got it all figured out
Decision-making suffers because real information doesn't flow upward
The Authenticity-Authority Balance
True leadership strength isn't about appearing perfect. It's about having the courage to be real, even when things get hard.
This doesn't mean oversharing or burdening your team with every concern. It means finding the balance between maintaining authority and showing authentic humanity.
Questions to assess your current approach:
When did you last admit to your team that you didn't know something?
Do people bring you problems early, or only when they've become urgent?
How do team members react when they make mistakes in front of you?
Are people suggesting new ideas, or just executing your directives?
Moving Forward
The goal isn't to become vulnerable to the point of weakness. It's to model the kind of authentic leadership that creates psychological safety - where your team feels safe to share real information, admit mistakes early, and take calculated risks.
This week, try this: Identify one area where you could be more authentic with your team. Maybe it's admitting you're learning something new, asking for their input on a challenge you're facing, or sharing a mistake you made and what you learned from it.
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